Write a short essay on the following topic in about 150 words.
Topic: What do you think are the three most important elements of
love? What do they entail?
【正确答案】：
     IN MY OPINION,UNDERSTANDING,RESPECT AND RESPONSIBILITY ARE THE THREE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENTS
OF LOVE.
     LOVE MEANS KNOWLEDGE OR UNDERSTANDING.BY KNOWLEDGE,I MEAN I KNOW THE PERSON I LOVE. I
AM AWARE OF THE MANY SIDES OF THE OTHERS PERSON — NOT JUST THE BEAUTIFUL SIDE BUT ALSO THE
IMPERFECTIONS.
     LOVE MEANS HAVING RESPECT FOR THE DIGNITY OF THE PERSON I LOVE.IF I LOVE YOU I CAN SEE YOU AS A
SEPARATE PERSON WITH YOUR OWN VALUES,FEELING AND INTERESTS.I DO NOT INSIST THAT YOU GIVE UP YOUR OWN IDENTITY AND CONFORM TO WHAT I EXPECT YOU TO BE. 
     LOVE MEANS RESPONSIBILITY TOWARDS THE PERSON I LOVE.IF I LOVE YOU,I'M RESPONSIVE TO MOST OF
YOUR NEEDS AS A PERSON.I AM DIRECTLY INVOLVED IN YOUR HAPPINESS AND MISERY.
     ALL IN ALL,UNDERSTANDING,RESPECT AND RESPONSIBILITY ARE THE THREE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENTS OF
LOVE.
【题目解析】：
在我看来，理解，尊重和责任是爱的三个最重要的元素。
爱意味着认识或理解。所谓认识，我的意思是我了解我爱的人。我知道他的很多方面——不仅仅是美丽的一面，还有不完美的一面。
爱意味着尊重我所爱的人的尊严。如果我爱你，我可以把你看成一个独立的人，有你自己的价值观、情感和兴趣。我不坚持要求你放弃你自己的身份，而遵从我对你的期望。
爱意味着对我所爱的人的责任。如果我爱你，作为一个人，我对你的大部分需求都能做出反应。我的幸福和痛苦与你的幸福和痛苦有直接关系。
总之，理解、尊重和责任是爱的三个最重要的元素。